• abuse
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  • adult learning principle
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  • check AV equipment
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  • Elderhostel
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  • emotional slavery
  • empathy
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  • employee turnover
  • encore career
  • energizers
  • engage learners
  • enrich learning situations
  • entrapment
  • entrepreneur
  • evaluation mistakes
  • evidence-based
  • examples
  • Exploritas
  • express feelings
  • facilitate
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  • facilitation mistakes
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  • fading
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  • gender subversion
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  • highly technical topics
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  • incompetence
  • independent training consultant
  • interpersonal communication skills training
  • interpreting other's actions
  • interview strategy
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  • just-in-time training
  • keep lights on during AV
  • key learning
  • kinesthetic objects
  • leadership training
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  • learner confidence
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  • learner-centered training
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  • learning activities
  • learning contract
  • learning environment
  • learning institute
  • learning objectives
  • learning process
  • learning styles
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  • level of learning
  • life management
  • lifelong learning
  • limited training time
  • long-term memory
  • make a difference
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  • make good impression during interview
  • make participants more alert
  • make participants more comfortable
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  • making requests instead of demands
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  • nightmare
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  • Simon Sinek
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  • Tip #408: One More Story and a Note of Thanks

    What is success in this world? I would say it consists of four simple things — to live a lot, to love a lot, to laugh a lot, and from it all, to learn a lot.” Richard J. Needham

    This will be a very brief Tip, with one more story and a note of thanks.

    Beth Tomlin, Departmental Training Specialist with TRICARE Division – Nordby, sent this wonderful story about the unexpected results of incomplete instructions:

    “I have a funny anecdote to go along with this subject. Years ago, I worked at a summer day camp and the kids would go swimming almost every day. On the first day of swimming, I had the youngest girls in my group, mostly kindergarten and first grade kids. I told them to take off their clothes, put on their swimsuits and take a shower before going out on the pool deck. They were so excited and made quick work of getting ready.  

    When they came out on the pool deck I had to turn away from them so they wouldn’t see me laughing. All but two of the girls were still wearing their underwear under their swimsuits!  I couldn’t blame them… they did exactly what I asked them to do. They took off their clothes, put on their swimsuits and took a shower. As they very noisily pointed out to me, I said absolutely nothing about removing their underwear! Sometimes I miss those days.”

    Thank you, Beth!

    Now, I need to amend the quote above by adding a fifth component of success in life: wonderful friends.

    Thank you for your good wishes and support as I move through my current journey.  Your messages have meant more to me than I can ever tell you- and since words are my business, that’s saying a great deal!

    It may be a trite saying, but it is meant sincerely- thank you from the bottom of my heart! I count you among the many blessings in my life.

    Stay warm if you are in a cold climate and cool if you are in a hot climate. Tips will resume in two or three weeks.

    May your learning be sweet.     

    Deborah    

    Tip #407: Avoid Giving Unnecessary, Confusing or Incomplete Instructions!

    “This life is a test. It is only a test. Had this been an actual life, you would have received further instructions as to what to do and where to go.”  Unknown Author

    Magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) is a test that uses a magnetic field and pulses of radio wave energy to make pictures of organs and structures inside the body. My recent learning experience with having an MRI reinforced the importance of giving meaningful, clear and complete instructions.

    1.  Avoid Giving Unnecessary Instructions

    My appointment instructions explicitly told me to wear pants without any metal attachments. Okay, that was no problem. All I had to do was wear pants with an elastic waist instead of a zipper. Unfortunately, I overlooked the second requirement until I had my snow boots, winter coat, scarf, hat and gloves on. Apparently, I was also supposed to wear pants without pockets.

    This created some stress on my part. Who owns pants without pockets? I certainly don’t! Actually, what is the point of pants that have no pockets?

    Once we got to the hospital, there was no problem. They handed me pajama bottoms to wear. I guess I was one in a long line of patients who were not pocketless pant owners!

    This begs the question- why give those pants instructions at all? A good rule of thumb for hospitals, trainers and life itself is to avoid giving unnecessary instructions!

    2.  Avoid Giving Confusing Instructions

    The instructions on the bottle of prescription sedatives indicated that two sedatives should be taken 30 minutes before the MRI and another two sedatives should be taken 30 minutes after the MRI.

    Taking them beforehand made perfect sense. I am claustrophobic and the idea of lying completely enclosed for an hour gave me great concern, to say the least. The sedatives were intended to take the edge off and enable me to relax and stay still.

    However, I couldn’t imagine why I would need to take two more sedatives after the MRI. Would there be post-traumatic stress from the MRI experience? Was this a clever intervention intended to distract me and minimize my ability to think clearly and ask anxious questions after the procedure?

    Who knows? I still don’t know, because no one at the hospital could explain the need for post MRI sedation and I personally felt no need for it.

    Let’s add confusing instructions to the list of things to avoid. Instructions should contribute to clarity rather than confusion.

    3.  Avoid Giving Incomplete Instructions

    While some instructions are meaningless or simply confusing, some don’t go far enough.

    If a patient takes a sedative, the hospital insists on having someone else drive a patient to and from the MRI. However, they say nothing about the length of time it will take before the patient can safely resume driving.

    Because I asked the question, I learned that the sedatives I had taken would impair my mental capacity and motor coordination for 6-10 hours! Unfortunately, this information was not printed anywhere or volunteered by any medical personnel. If I hadn’t asked the question, I would never have known the answer.

    I had errands to run that afternoon. I could easily have been a danger to myself or to others on the road if I had hopped into my car once I got back from the hospital. Luckily, since I knew that I was incapacitated, my driver kindly took me on those errands.

    This seems like a significant oversight in the instructions department, don’t you think?

    If anything deserves to be crystal clear, it should be medical instructions. However, in the hospital staff’s defense, it is probably so obvious to them that sedation takes a long time to wear off, they assume that anyone would know this. As a general rule, it is best to avoid making assumptions.

    Life daily provides new lessons to learn. Lessons relating to health and safety can be anxiety-ridden and difficult enough without the added stress and frustration of poor instructions. First do no harm!

    Even if you are not a health professional, regardless of the situation, when you give instructions, please make sure that they are necessary, clear and complete.

    May your learning be sweet.

    Deborah

    Tip #406: Life Is What Happens

    “Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.” John Lennon

    Happy New Year.

    I know that I said that these Tips would recommence on January 16th. However, something came up. A not so funny thing happened to me on my way to planning my international travels. I was diagnosed with early uterine cancer.

    In the space of a few days, my life and my focus were dramatically reframed. So now, instead of getting visas and packing for Jordan and Nigeria, I’m getting medical tests and preparing for surgery.

    I’m also learning a lot- about myself, about my family, and about my friends.

    First of all, I’ve learned that my body’s defensive response to devastating news is to get so sick that all that I can do is eat, read and sleep. That’s how I spent the holidays. Luckily, the Christmas tree is beautiful and my cats have been happy to keep my lap warm when I sit in my rocking chair to read.

    Second, as I take practical steps- to cancel my trip, to plan for work absences, to create a back up strategy if my recovery takes longer than anticipated- I realize that I am operating on automatic pilot. My emotions must be packed away with my passport. The cancer is a reality, the operation is a necessity, and everything else seems to fade in significance.

    Third, I am making sure to keep breathing. That sounds funny, I know. But a new friend insists that I keep breathing and focus on healing. Oh, and eat a lot of deep green leafy vegetables. I’m doing very well on two of those three imperatives.

    My family has been wonderful. Three of my brothers and one sister-in-law have all offered to leave their busy lives to be with me. My mother has asked about what she can do, since she no longer travels. My cousins have sent love and light, keeping me in their prayers. My daughter has piloted me through the maze of the University of Wisconsin Hospital, getting me to all of the various tests and appointments. My son has given me reassuring hugs.

    My friends have also rallied, sending best wishes and offers of help. Even people I have only recently started to work with and get to know have offered to drive me to appointments or to sit and talk over coffee.

    There is also a strong and supportive virtual community of Hystersisters who share great advice based on their personal experiences. As a result, I know what to expect, how to plan and where to go when I need answers or moral support. Since it is a worldwide organization, there are loving women awake and available at the touch of a keyboard no matter the time of day or night.

    I am so very lucky. Technological advances can make this surgery as minimally invasive as possible. I have a kind and very experienced doctor and medical team. I know that I am in good hands.

    At this time when I could feel most alone, instead I am nestled in the warmth of loving wisdom and concern.

    I don’t know what is in store for me. I don’t know why this health issue is happening right now. I’m not sure what I am supposed to learn from this. Perhaps that the spirit is incredibly strong and resilient? That love and tenderness surround us? That this lifelong loner is not now, has never really been, and will never be alone.

    If we are all angels learning to be human, than this is a most human experience. An MRI on January 13th (a Friday) will reveal the extent of the cancer. Hopefully, we are catching it early before it has had time to spread. Regardless of the MRI findings, my surgery will be on January 26th. My children and my brother will be with me- and my family and friends will be on call.

    They tell me that, if all goes well, the surgery will be conducted robotically and I’ll be able to go home the very next day. And if the cancer is localized, that surgery will be all that I need.

    That is my hope and my prayer. Now I let go and let God.

    Thank you for being part of my journey.

    May your learning be sweet.     

    Deborah    

    Tip #405: Peace and Joy

    “Mankind must remember that peace is not God’s gift to his creatures; peace is our gift to each other.”  Elie Wiesel

    Thank you for accompanying me on my learning journey this past year. My wish is that you find peace and joy in the faces of your loved ones and gratitude in the life story you continue to write for yourself.

    Next year, I embark on a very new and different adventure. I will be traveling for a month for USAID to train trainers in Nigeria and Jordan to design and deliver dynamic learning.

    I look forward to sharing those experiences with you.

    May you have a healthy and happy holiday season.

    Laurel Learning Tips will begin again on January 10, 2012, a week before I begin my travels.

    May your learning be sweet.

    Deborah

    Tip #404: Forty Ways to Leave Your Trainees

    “The fatal metaphor of progress, which means leaving things behind us, has utterly obscured the real idea of growth, which means leaving things inside us.”  G. K. Chesterton

    What do trainers leave inside their trainees? There are the various states of mind that trainers can stir in their trainees. Some of these states of mind are desirable and others are not. With an appreciative nod to Paul Simon and his “50 Ways to Leave Your Lover,” here are some of the desirable and undesirable states of mind that trainees may have when they walk out of a training program:

    1.   Clear about what they were supposed to learn, or
    2.   Wondering why they had to attend the training.
    3.   Partnered with the facilitator in a collaborative learning process, or
    4.   Reeling from having their knowledge and experience discounted and disrespected.
    5.   Glad to be learning something new and important to them, or
    6.   Just happy for a day off from work.
    7.   Relaxed and encouraged, or
    8.   Upset with how they were treated.
    9.   Confident in their own knowledge skills, or
    10. In awe of the trainer’s knowledge and skills.
    11. Physically comfortable, or
    12. Praying for a break.
    13. Safe and protected, or
    14. Emotionally raw.
    15. Focused on what matters, or
    16. Completely overwhelmed.
    17. Totally engaged, or
    18. Bored and blasé.
    19. More energized than when they entered the classroom, or
    20. Almost comatose.
    21. Feeling the investment of time was worthwhile, or
    22. Bemoaning the time wasted.
    23. Ready to get going, or just
    24. Anxious to get out of there.
    25. Willing to give changed policies or procedures a try, or
    26. Still resistant to the proposed changes.
    27. Prepared to use what they’ve learned, or
    28. Armed with theoretical but no practical skills.
    29. Eager for more or,
    30. Completely turned off.
    31. Excited and confident, or
    32. Concerned about what happens next.
    33. Ready to address the challenges they will face, or
    34. Unsure of their ability to put what they learned into practice.
    35. Celebrating success, or
    36. Confused about what just hit them.
    37. Sure about where to begin, or
    38. Worried about the lack of support once they get back on the job.
    39. Appreciative of the learning opportunity, or
    40. Turned off by the entire experience.

    According to Dr. Madeline Hunter and the UCLA Mastery Teaching Model, trainers can increase the probability of learning by the decisions they make regarding: (1) the content they teach, (2) the learning activities they use, and (3) the learning environment they create. Make sure your decisions enable your trainees to leave your programs enlightened and positive, rather than confused and negative.

    May your learning be sweet.

    Deborah

    Tip #403: Six Reasons For Trainers to Ignore Participant Evaluations

    “I like criticism, but it must be my way.”  Mark Twain

    Criticism can be uncomfortable, unkind, and unfounded. As a result, unless they want to be the next Top Model or American Idol, most people avoid situations in which they are likely to be criticized.

    Assuming that trainers are not masochists, there are many reasons why they may dislike and want to avoid having participants evaluate their training programs. After all, hours of work go into creating training program materials. Conducting a training program can be exhausting. Why add insult to injury by requesting participant feedback?

    Unfortunately, participants are customarily asked to evaluate the training programs that they attend. Since trainers cannot avoid these program evaluations, they need some other way to protect themselves.

    Trainers can give at least six rationalizations for ignoring participant evaluations:

    Rationalization #1.  The participants in training sessions don’t know what good training is, so their evaluations are essentially meaningless.

    For goodness sakes, who is the trainer in the room, anyway? As long as the trainer is satisfied, it doesn’t really matter what the participants think.

    Yet trainers who ignore participant feedback do so at their own peril. Training participants don’t need to know what constitutes great training. They just need to feel that they are walking away from the training with useful new knowledge or skills.

    Why would any trainer want to continually subject participants to training that doesn’t meet their needs? The antidote to this rationalization is for trainers to respect the participants’ perspective.

    Rationalization #2.  It’s too hard to know what to do when some participants hate activities that other participants love.

    Participants come to training programs with individual preferences and varying degrees of knowledge and experience. To paraphrase Abraham Lincoln: You can satisfy all the participants some of the time, and some of the participants all the time, but you cannot satisfy all the participants all the time.

    However, just because a training decision is difficult does not mean a decision can’t be made. If a learning activity is uncomfortable for some of the participants, the antidote to this rationalization is to modify the activity to make it more palatable or to replace it, if necessary.

    Rationalization #3.  Participants don’t really give much time or thought when they complete their evaluations.

    Evaluations are typically conducted at the end of a training day, when participants are tired and anxious to leave. By the end of the day, it may be hard for the participants to remember what actually happened during the training session. As a result, their evaluation comments may be terse or nonexistent.

    Training evaluation forms do not need to be long and complex. The antidote to this rationalization is to make the process of completing the evaluation form as quick and easy as possible.

    Rationalization #4.  Evaluations don’t measure what the participants learned, just what they felt about it.

    There are many ways to evaluate learning during the course of a training program by having the participants perform tasks and complete activities using their new knowledge or skills. By the end of the session, both the trainer and the participants should know if learning has occurred.

    “Smile sheets” still serve an important purpose. The antidote to this rationalization is to recognize that participants are more likely to remember and apply what they have learned if they have had a positive learning experience.

    Rationalization #5.  For consistency’s sake, once a training program has been developed, it should be sacrosanct.

    Participant evaluations can ultimately generate a lot more training design and/or revision work for the trainer. Trainers may be forgiven their resistance to having a training program become a continual work in progress.

    Consistency in training is admirable, but quality learning is essential. If program changes are necessary, then they must be made. The antidote to this rationalization is to recognize that the only thing sacrosanct about a training program should be its commitment to learning success.

    Rationalization #6.  Participants who are unhappy for reasons totally unrelated to the training program may take out their frustrations in the training evaluation.

    A few unhappy participants may write highly negative comments about a training program. These evaluations can pummel a trainer’s ego and puncture a trainer’s sense of accomplishment. However, unless the comments show a consistent pattern of concern, it is probably best to disregard them.

    The antidote to this rationalization is to discard the outlying evaluations (those that are either far more positive or far more negative than the majority of the participant responses). This approach will help to weed out unmerited criticisms.

    Receiving participant criticism with grace and dignity can be difficult, no matter how much experience a trainer has. There is an element of truth to the six reasons that trainers use to rationalize ignoring participant evaluations. However, participant evaluations offer an invaluable gift: their comments and feedback will help trainers discover the best way to meet the participants’ needs and ensure an effective learning experience.

    May your learning be sweet.

    Deborah